Why We Struggle to Own Our Success
Ever feel disconnected from the praise others give you? Do you find yourself undervaluing your own accomplishments while overvaluing those of others? If so, you’re not alone. It’s easy to get caught in the cycle of constantly chasing the next goal without acknowledging just how far you’ve come.
The Moment That Changed Everything
I recently wrapped up my first full year of entrepreneurship (YAY!), and something interesting happened. Friends and family kept telling me, “It’s amazing what you’ve accomplished this past year!” But here’s the kicker — I felt completely disconnected from their words. Why? Because I was stuck in the “what’s next” mentality. Instead of taking a moment to celebrate, I was too busy planning the next milestone. Sound familiar? Then, one day, while listening to a podcast, I heard something that changed my perspective. The host talked about the importance of “hitting the like button on yourself.” That’s when it hit me—I had been so focused on the next goal and comparing myself to others that I never took a moment to acknowledge and appreciate my own journey.
Your Daily “Hit Like on YOU” Challenge
Starting today, I challenge you to hit that metaphorical “like” button on yourself at least once a day. Here’s how:
✅ End-of-Day Reflection: Before you wrap up your workday, write down one thing you’re proud of accomplishing.
✅ Mirror Moment: Look yourself in the eye each morning and say, “I acknowledge my value and my achievements.”
✅ Gratitude for Growth: Keep a “growth journal” where you note the skills you’re developing and the progress you’re making.
Small actions like these can make a massive difference in how you see yourself and your success. So, go ahead—hit that like button on YOU. You deserve it! |
